Lily Comfort Dog

Do you ever wonder what it is like living with a Comfort Dog?

Living with a Comfort Dog can be fun, hard work, and very rewarding. A Comfort Dog has a lot of needs, and because she does such important work, her caregivers will make sure she is properly taken care of. It’s part of her reward and our responsibility.

Lily has her own bed, toys, sleeping location, and dish in each of the homes that she lives at. Because we share resopnsibility for her, she has been trained to be comfortable in each of our homes. Feeding is a big ritual that helps her bond with her caregivers.

A Typical Day

The day starts with a good morning greeting by Lily. She wags her tail so hard when waking up and seeing her family, that sometimes I think she is going to wag her behind right off! She will follow me into the bathroom, but she never just bursts through the door…she will stick her nose in and wait for me to tell her to come in. She’s very polite.

She will then go outside for her morning “Hurry Up.” “Hurry Up” is the command that tells her when and where it is ok to go potty. Try that one, humans!

After that, breakfast is served. Comfort Dogs always eat after the caregiver does. This tells the dog that the human is “Alpha” so Lily will wait patiently on her mat while we eat, and she doesn’t beg or bother us. She politely looks away. After the dishes are cleared, she gets fed. Lily always waits to be told to eat. Sometimes she is so excited to eat she will drool a little, but she always waits to be told to “Go Eat.” Once I forgot to tell my Josie to “Go Eat” and I found her about 10 minutes later waiting patiently. Poor dog! But she knows this command the best.

After breakfast, Lily will go for a walk, coat brushed, teeth brushed, and ready for the day. When its time to go to work, we tell Lily to “Dress.” This is how we put her working vest on. She knows she is working when the vest goes on, and she calms right down and gets prepared for work. Then we’ll hop in the car and go for a visit to a nursing home, a school, or some other place where love and comfort is needed. We will also take Lily with us when we run errands, like grocery shopping, the post office, the gardening center, or the local Walmart. Traveling with Lily is always an adventure, and we have to add more time to running a simple errand because of the people we meet and speak with at all our stops. But these are also training and picture opportunities, and it helps the community get to know about Lily.

When we get home, the vest comes off with another “Dress” command. Then Lily becomes a real dog, playing, jumping, and running around. All these activities are done on command, and we make sure she has lots of time to have fun, run, and play. If she has had a particularly long and stressful day, then she will get a treat…an apple slice with peanut butter hidden in a Kong Toy. She’ll spend hours trying to get to that tasty treat. It helps her stay sharp and keeps her problem solving skills sharp. After all, she can’t just reach in there to get the apple out. Then there will be another walk before dinner, and then one after dinner.

If Lily has a home with another dog, then playtime with her friend is always on the menu. She loves to chase, play fetch, and run with her friends. And, throughout the day, training opportunities will come up. for instance, if we are cooking and drop something on the floor, we tell her to “leave it” and she does. Also, a “down-stay” is always good throughout the day. This helps Lily stay sharp, and also gives our pets a chance to practice their good behaviors, too. And, we will look for opportunities to take pictures of her playing, because her facebook friends like to see her being herself as well as working.

Lily also gets a massage at the end of the day. We make sure we massage every part of her, including her paws. She really enjoys this treat and it helps her relax.

Then it’s time to go to bed, and Lily is ready with a “Go to your mat” command. She sometimes takes her toy to bed with her, but she stays quiet until the morning when the family gets up and her day starts over again.

Well, that is pretty much how our day goes. Lots of love, play, fun activities, balanced with work, comfort, and pets. I hope you enjoyed coming along with us for a day. Spending the day with Lily always reminds me of Psalms 92:4 because of the joy Lily gives to so many people:

“For you, O Lord, have made me glad by what You have done. I will sing for joy at the works of Your hands.”

Is there something you would like to know about LIly and her day? Please write to us in the comment section, below. We would love to hear from you.

Today, we interview Lily’s trainer, Terry Ressler. Terry is the father of our own Pastor Phil Ressler. Pastor Phil had Chloe Comfort Dog at his previous church home, Lord of Life, and he introduced Good Shepherd to this ministry. It is with great honor that we interview Terry and his wife, Elaine!

Dog Blog (DB): Terry, can you tell us how you became involved in the Comfort Dog Ministry and as a Trainer of Puppies?

Terry Ressler (TR): Elaine began working with the Comfort Dog Ministry as a handler for Kye Comfort Dog when Immanuel first received Kye on May 17, 2012. I retired early in 2013 and Elaine encouraged me to get involved in the Comfort Dog Ministry, so I became a handler for Kye and Bekah Comfort Dogs.

We had received information from Lutheran Church Charities (LCC) regarding the need for apprentice trainers and I considered it but decided against it at first. We then attended the LCC National Comfort Dog Conference the end of July 2013 and they talked about the training that would be beginning in August. I felt God nudging me to take a leap of faith and so right there at the conference I talked to Dona Martin about becoming a trainer and then filled out the necessary paperwork for approval.

I began my apprentice training on August 8, 2015 with Lily Comfort Dog. Elaine helped with some with the training, however in August she took on the challenge of being an apprentice trainer and has her own Comfort Dog to train, Elizabeth ComfortDog. So we currently have two comfort dogs in the house. . .Job and Elizabeth.

DB: Can you tell us about the training process?

TR: Training begins at about eight weeks of age. You are assigned a puppy by LCC.

Excitement is high that first day you meet your new puppy and take them home with a kennel, food, and puppy supplies provided by LCC. There are weekly training sessions you are required to attend at the LCC headquarters in Northbrook, IL. At these two hour training sessions we meet with all the other comfort dogs in training and gradually learn all the commands they will need to know as a Comfort Dog.

The dogs love their training sessions and of course their play time after. “Homework” is sent home with the trainer with a list of items that you will be working on throughout the week. On occasion we will go on a field trip to Target or a nursing home or other locations. During the week we go to a one-on-one with the master trainer.

I trained Lily from August 2013 until she was placed in August of 2014. Usually you are not allowed to train a dog for the entire training process. Dogs are switched halfway through training to ensure that they are used to being handled by different people and also to give them more and different types of exposure. However, I was given Lily to train for the entire process because she went to Good Shepherd in Old Bridge, New Jersey where my son is their Pastor.

What an awesome experience to personally deliver Lily and pass the leash to my son!! It’s a day I will never forget! I jokingly told the congregation “Well, you took my son and his family and now you are taking my dog!!”

DB: What trait did you see in Lily early on that told you that she would make a great Comfort Dog?

TR: Lily loved people. She enjoyed meeting and greeting people of all ages from a tiny baby to someone in a nursing home!

DB: Lily was your first…what other puppies have you trained?

TR: Anna, Jethro, Naomi and Job. I have had other Comfort Dogs stay with us but only for a couple of days. The next training year I had Anna and then switched to Jethro. This training year I had Naomi (from 8 weeks old to 9 months) and have now made the
“switch” and have Job since he was 7 1/2 months old.

DB: We often get asked by those we visit if it is hard to give Lily up at the end of the day. Was it hard for you to let Lily go after spending a year with her?

TR: Yes it is very hard to let go! At the same time it is very gratifying to pass on a part of yourself knowing that it will be used to share the presence and compassion of Jesus Christ.
It does not get any easier as you watch them go…but you have to have the mindset that it is not your puppy and it is not a pet. We can love them and bond with them but in the
end we know they will move on.

We had a dog, Odie, that we lost at the age of 17 while we were training Lily. What a blessing it was to have Lily on hand to comfort the family. (Note from Lily’s Team: We have experienced several losses during our time with Lily and yes, she does provide comfort to us as well as those we visit.)

DB: What was Lily like when she was a puppy? Was she hard to train?

TR: Lily was a typical puppy, as she got into things she wasn’t supposed to. She definitely loved to chew, especially when those new teeth were coming in. I have a few “marks” in my house to remind me of her!!!

As far as the training process, she was a quick learner and loved meeting and greeting people. If I could go back and train her now, since I have more experience, I think her training process would have been even better.

DB: What was the hardest thing for Lily to learn?

TR: The hardest thing for Lily to learn was to not pick objects up off the ground. Our grandchildren knew they couldn’t leave toys lying around or Lily would pick them up. But being a quick learner, she eventually new what was her toy to pick up and which ones were the grand kids.

She also loved to have her “nose to the ground” which is a Comfort Dog no, no!!! Especially when we were at a place that had lots of smells, such as a garden center. At the time the command to not smell the ground while walking and not pick things up was “leave it”. That command was given so much that sometimes I would call her “Lily, leave it”!!!

DB: What was the funniest moment with Lily?

TR: There were quite a few, but one that stands out is when we were at the church grounds taking photos when she was a small puppy. I had her to a “sit/stay” on a large landscape rock. As the photographer was taking her picture, she started to slowly slide off the rock. She knew she was not to move from where she was placed and it was like slow motion falling off the rock. The photographer was snapping and caught it on film.

Another funny thing that she would do all the time is with her dog dish. We had a one that had a bone painted on the bottom. She would try and try and try to get that bone out of the water.

DB: Terry, do you have any thoughts on Lily’s ministry? Has she lived up to your expectations for her?

TR: We love to follow Lily on Facebook – to see the places she goes and the people she visits. We know that she is doing the work that she was trained to do. We can see that her handlers have the same passion as we do in using these beautiful animals as a bridge to connect people to Christ.

DB: What one piece of advice can you give Lily handlers?

TR: Lily is that bridge to connecting people to Christ. . .but remember it’s not about the dog!

Terry and Elaine, we thank you so much for your dedication and passion for this ministry, and we thank you for sharing your son and his family with us.